#1: TFLN

[gunflowers]

Let's start with an easy one!



You know the drill!!

Comments

where'd this notif go? nobody knows!

[strewn]

Getting up to get it will get your blood flowing and that'll warm you up too.

it wanted to spare you from geun

[gumino]

baby u get my blood flowing

what dont you forget about the clothes and the comforter and just bring your pretty self

no, never! this is not what we ordered, dw. more geun, not less.

[strewn]

Does this ever work?

[gumino]

not yet but im always hopeful

[strewn]

I read something about how trying the same thing over and over when it doesn't work is the definition of insanity or something.

[gumino]

oh thats just the rabies in me

im perfectly sane

you drive me a little crazy tho

[strewn]

Are you being literal?

Because the message there is to change what you're doing to see if you get a different result.

[gumino]

i dont know how to change what im doing

i only know how to keep doing it

[strewn]

Can you try being less aggressive?

[gumino]

im not biting you through the phone

[strewn]

I mean, sexually.

[gumino]

look if anything im not aggressive enough or id probably be getting some

[strewn]

No. You're too aggressive and that's why you're not.

[gumino]

i dont know any other way to be

[strewn]

Well, maybe try putting yourself in the other person's shoes.

[gumino]

shoes or pants

id rather put myself in the other persons pants

[strewn]

This is exactly what I mean. Think about whether or not you'd want to hear that if you weren't in the mood or didn't know the person well.

Or not, you know. Like that.

[gumino]

i would love to hear that someone wants to be with me

i think it would feel really nice for a change

[strewn]

Well, just ask... nicely. Instead of saying 'bring me this, and by the way, I'm naked,' you could try asking someone to join you for an activity of some kind.

Something non-sexual.

Like a movie.

[gumino]

[this is weird and confusing and he doesn't really understand, but.]

you wanna join me for a movie

[strewn]

Okay.

[ ... ]

I'll bring you the comforter.

[gumino]

holy shit really

[strewn]

Yes. You should be comfortable so you can enjoy the movie.

[gumino]

well

[what does he do, what does he say. this is kind of weird and scary.]

im ok with being uncomfortable

if i can watch it with you i mean

i mean i think id enjoy it no matter what

if you were there

yeah

[strewn]

I want you to be comfortable.

[ He does, right? Right. He does. ]

So we both enjoy ourselves.