#1: TFLN

[gunflowers]

Let's start with an easy one!



You know the drill!!

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[gumino]

oh thats just the rabies in me

im perfectly sane

you drive me a little crazy tho

[strewn]

Are you being literal?

Because the message there is to change what you're doing to see if you get a different result.

[gumino]

i dont know how to change what im doing

i only know how to keep doing it

[strewn]

Can you try being less aggressive?

[gumino]

im not biting you through the phone

[strewn]

I mean, sexually.

[gumino]

look if anything im not aggressive enough or id probably be getting some

[strewn]

No. You're too aggressive and that's why you're not.

[gumino]

i dont know any other way to be

[strewn]

Well, maybe try putting yourself in the other person's shoes.

[gumino]

shoes or pants

id rather put myself in the other persons pants

[strewn]

This is exactly what I mean. Think about whether or not you'd want to hear that if you weren't in the mood or didn't know the person well.

Or not, you know. Like that.

[gumino]

i would love to hear that someone wants to be with me

i think it would feel really nice for a change

[strewn]

Well, just ask... nicely. Instead of saying 'bring me this, and by the way, I'm naked,' you could try asking someone to join you for an activity of some kind.

Something non-sexual.

Like a movie.

[gumino]

[this is weird and confusing and he doesn't really understand, but.]

you wanna join me for a movie

[strewn]

Okay.

[ ... ]

I'll bring you the comforter.

[gumino]

holy shit really

[strewn]

Yes. You should be comfortable so you can enjoy the movie.

[gumino]

well

[what does he do, what does he say. this is kind of weird and scary.]

im ok with being uncomfortable

if i can watch it with you i mean

i mean i think id enjoy it no matter what

if you were there

yeah

[strewn]

I want you to be comfortable.

[ He does, right? Right. He does. ]

So we both enjoy ourselves.

[gumino]

ok just so im sure

do you mean sexually or just for the movie only

[strewn]

For the movie only.

[gumino]

ok

ok got it

[strewn]

Okay.

What movie do you want to see?

[gumino]

is the new lion king out

i keep seeing things about the new lion king