#1: TFLN

[gunflowers]

Let's start with an easy one!



You know the drill!!

Comments

[hapertas]

not that i wanna pry, buuut...

[gunflowers]

sure you don't

he was very innocent when we first met, and for a long time i didn't even get to see his dick and then i did and look.

it's big and it's nice and he's a very fast learner and he's dedicated to making me feel good

12/10 would do again

[hapertas]

well, i didn't want to pry TOO much, at least.

he sounds so great, myung. i'm really, really happy for you.

also, pretty sure you will do again, huh? if he's smart, he'll stick with you. maybe i should warn him about text messages and how they're not appropriate for dropping big news.

[gunflowers]

he's very sweet. he's very earnest, and gentle, and i'm not really used to any of this but it really seems like he cares about me. which is nice because i care about him, but i'm just... yeah. it's very new and a little scary, i guess. even my exes, it was always quite casual. but dal's anything but casual.

well, let's hope he's not going to drop me

[hapertas]

he sounds perfect for you. and it's nice to have something that's not so casual, if that feels comfortable to you.

he won't! i mean, he better not.

but this applies to other topics too. i wouldn't text you if i set your kitchen on fire.

[gunflowers]

You think I should - you think I should give it a chance, don’t you

you wouldn’t tell me if you set my kitchen on fire?

[hapertas]

i think it sounds like it could be something really solid. do you feel comfortable giving it a chance to be?

i'd call you, myung! i'd call!

[gunflowers]

i guess i've been a bit burned in the past, so i'm wondering when the other shoe is going to drop

[hapertas]

it really is possible that it won't. maybe it's too early to tell, but you could let him know? that you've dealt with some uncertainty the past, that this is new to you.

[gunflowers]

you dn't think it's too much to say that already? it's only been a couple months

[hapertas]

honestly? i don't think it's ever too early, really. if you're feeling something, then you're feeling it. it's not wrong to acknowledge that!

[gunflowers]

i just don't want him to get scared by me saying i like him but i don't know how to trust him

that feels shitty

[hapertas]

i guess on one level, you'd be placing some trust in him to understand what's in your heart. to know that it isn't that you're mistrustful of him, but guarded because of past relationships that hurt you.

[gunflowers]

you think that he'd appreciate that? would you?

[hapertas]

i would. it's easier to build that trust when you're being honest to begin with. even if it's hard.

[gunflowers]

what if... what if he's not a good guy?

[hapertas]

then how he reacts to you being honest will probably tell you as much and you'll know it's better to walk away now than later.

[gunflowers]

ugh. it's annoying when you're so wise but then i have to do something potentially hurtful

[hapertas]

i'm sorry, myung. listen, i don't know if it helps, but i'll be here either way. you can come to me and we can talk all night and eat junk food and drink if you want.

[gunflowers]

what about your husband, he won't like that

[hapertas]

you're right, i better make sure to save him some of our snacks.

[gunflowers]

i think he'd dislike me stealing his man away for pyjama parties

[hapertas]

i think he'll be ok for one night! besides, you wouldn't be stealing me, because i'm offering to come.

[gunflowers]

if you're sure, i don't really want to get on his bad side again

[hapertas]

don't worry about that, myung. let's focus on what you've got to talk about when you get here!